A Bit of Ranting.

This has been a long week.
School. Work. Bestie coming into town.
Found out someone I thought I was cool with ..... absolutely hates me.

It was a low blow.
After seven months he finally blew up about it to someone else.
I can understand that I'm really not easy to deal with; and I accept that.
At the same time if a problem is brought to my attention and someone tells
me I'm being to harsh or need to back down; I will listen and work on it.
What's even worse about it, instead of coming to me with a problem, this person
told quite a few people we hang out with on a regular basis.
No one bothered to mention to me; or the man friend that its an issue.

First I was hurt; how if I take so much shit fro someone can hey call me out on
making jokes.
Then I was angry; how dare you say anything to anyone other than me if you had a problem.
Then I was appalled; what kind of person can't say what they think?
Now I feel sorry for them; I would hate to be in a position where I didn't feel comfortable
enough with myself and my surroundings that I couldn't say what I think.

How it plays out will be anyone's guess. Right now it's a huge mess; it all came out and blew up
in a matter of hours. Not a good, fun, or pretty situation.

Moral of the story:
If you have something to say to someone; say it. You may not be alive tomorrow, and that person could die at any second as well.
If you can't say something to the person involved; you shouldn't say anything at all.
Talking behind someone's back is something we are taught in elementary school not to do. Don't do it now that we've grown up. If you say something it always (I REPEAT ALWAYS!!) gets around and how will that person take it when they find out.

That is the end of my rant for today.
I'm really excited to go dress shopping with one of my best friends tomorrow!
Had sushi with her today; no matter what happens its like we never were apart and nothing changes.
Dress shopping and engagement dinner tomorrow night then out for drinks.
I'm excited!